Fellas, have you ever been in a public place and a woman just keeps glancing at you? Well, here I am speaking glancing at you because she enjoys the way you look lol.
I have just decided that the next time this happens to me, I'm just gonna walk over to her and say, "So were you just going to sit/stand there and look at me? Or were you going to ever come over and speak with me?" The next thing that comes out of her mouth depends on a few things. However, regardless of the situation, it is ok for the woman to speak with you from then on. After that IF either of you are interested in talking further with each other, you both can continue on talking and/or exchange phone numbers or whatever else.
This makes me think about how for the average woman, whenever they see a man in a public setting whom they are interested in, they will continue to gaze at him in hopes that he will come over and talk with her, rather than she take the initiative and go walk over to talk with him. This in my opinion is due to the social programming of women from a variety of external sources. Primarily the media. So many movies, music videos and other sources display the man coming over to the woman to talk with her. Very few times do you see things the other way around.
Now, as a woman, think about your own situation whenever you see a man that you are interested in, what are the very 1st things that you do? Think about is it necessary for you to wait for him to come to you? If you wait for him, what if he never saw you at all? What if another woman saw him after you saw him, and then she takes the initiative to go and communicate with him? Then she walks off with him rather than you walk off with him.
In summary
It's not necessary for you to wait for the man you are interested in to come to you and talk with you. It is ok for you as a woman to make 1st contact with the man whom you are interested in. Whether it be in a public place or on a social network site.
You have to develop your own communication skills that allow you to effectively and efficiently make this whole conversation process successful for you as possible.
As a woman who wants to make 1st contact with a man whom you are interested in, you should 1st recognize what is it that you want to achieve once you make 1st contact with him.
You have to develop your own communication skills that allow you to effectively and efficiently make this whole conversation process successful for you as possible.
As a woman who wants to make 1st contact with a man whom you are interested in, you should 1st recognize what is it that you want to achieve once you make 1st contact with him.
Think about it.
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